If you've known me for awhile, then you have no doubt concluded that I have a massive interest in history and economics. I am almost always in the middle of reading something, (as in a book not a social media post), related to those 2 topics.
As I think back to my teenage years I find an amazing irony that I certainly didn't appreciate at the time. I was a teenager when internet and cell phones started to hit mainstream and widespread use. As the 2 coalesced into 1 it became not unlike playing with fire. Used responsibly like a tool it can be an amazing boon in so many ways benefitting our lives. However, like fire it can also cause massive destruction and devastation in our lives as well.
I'm well aware that I'm not saying anything that most of you don't already know so what is the purpose of this post then?
Back in 2020 I left Facebook for a very simple reason. I was tired of having true posts marked as lies and quite frankly got sick of the antagonizing through comments that people with nothing better to do than enflame and divide being a distraction from the actual benefits of social media.
I have a friend with whom I have many differences of political opinion on but with whom I have also built a mutual respect for with regards to opinions across a myriad of topics. Often we agree which is not what you may expect given the divide you would expect, (largely due to the perception social media presents in our seemingly endless desire for attention).
As I am taking my first shot at public elected office, (school committee), social media is an unfortunate reality of outreach that I have no choice but to embrace to some degree. Given my love of history I got to thinking about colonial times communication, perfectly normal right? Let's see a show of hands for that one....anybody?
Anyway think of this. When the Boston Massacre occurred on March 5, 1770 it took one day to spread through the Boston streets. It took one week, March 12, 1770, to appear in the Boston Gazette. News hit New York and Philadelphia within 1-2 weeks and by the time about a month had passed it had spread to the rest of the colonies. The event had turned into propaganda with the "Bloody Massacre" prints on March 26, 1770. Similar events like the infamous Boston Tea Party had similar spread, the equivalent of going viral in todays social media terms.
Where am I going with all of this you may wonder?
Well, take the above paragraph about the Boston Massacre. Because it is well established history and relatively not controversial, there is some debate as to whether the "shot heard round the world" was actually an accident or not but irrelevant, as it pertains to historical fact. Just about everybody accepts the general Boston Massacre story as fact and it really isn't a controversial topic in today's world or political discourse so therefore finding out the facts on the story is relatively easy.
However, with anti-social media and in a story as old as the American revolution itself we often wish to be told we are right, rather than necessarily told the truth. We follow groups sympathetic to our personal views to feel less isolated and have a greater sense of being a part of something bigger than ourselves, it is a comfort that many of us long for....
It is also a trap. Our desire for not only attention but the desire to feel intelligent, to belong to something. This anti-social trap brings me back to the point about my friend with whom I disagree on some points but with whom I often have my most productive and engaging political and societal discussions. Most of us have similar situations in our lives. Friends and family members with whom we strongly disagree but with whom we can discuss those disagreements openly without the poison that comes with social media.
From an educational structure it is hard enough for social media to not negatively affect adults, never mind what it is doing to our children. Depression, anxiety, loneliness, ADHD, all existed during my childhood but never to the degree of what we would call an epidemic. We all agree on the reason, social media and too much time looking at screens.
Even in my teen years, (late 90's to early 2000's), we spent far more time actually out with our friends learning about the world in social settings. School taught us about the world in large groups, our friends taught us about the world in small groups, the combination helped us to grow into functioning adults who didn't grow up to be terrified of every little problem that would eventually and inevitably come our way.
Tragedies happened, accidents happened, (I was in 6th grade when a friend was shot in the head and killed). At 10, I was hit by a truck while riding my bike, (completely my fault), fracturing my left arm and putting me in one of those oh so cool casts that all the kids wanted to draw graphic art all over. Boys got into fist fights as did girls, half of the time with our friends, and we didn't require weeks of therapy to get over it.
Older people always call younger people weaker by comparison to similar ages. Essentially starting with the phrase, "when I was your age" etc. When I was younger it was often, "we used to have to walk uphill both ways in the snow to get to school" - many parents now in their 60's talking to their children now in their 40's.
You knew better than to question why the return trip wasn't downhill as logic would suggest. As all children and teenagers do we would test our parents patience or rules and every so often that led to an ass whooping we likely deserved.
This made that generation, (known as generation X - what is now called older millennials), much more adaptable to life's eventual and inevitable challenges. Many of us started working at younger ages. That work could be many things, from knocking on doors to offer shoveling driveways to paper route's. I got my first job at 9 years old learning to cook in the kitchen of a restaurant that my uncle owned at the time, (highly illegal especially by todays standards), but I loved it as did most of the restaurants patrons and employees.
Many younger people today would not only be appalled by that fact but in many cases lack the work ethic to even be able to do that as a teen, never mind as a 9 year old.
Parents often will speak to their children in true terms of the fact that kids have it easier today than the parents had it at their ages. What's fascinating about this is that most of us wouldn't trade the childhood we had for the childhood "Gen-Z" currently has. Our parents said the same to us but it does seem to be getting worse and worse.
Sure we had video games but even gaming was different. This article breaks down the difference at to the games we played in the 90's, often with friends in the same room playing side by side together, vs the more isolated endless loop games that do the opposite for kids today.
"Gaming was also far more social in a physical sense. You went to a friend’s house, sat on the same couch, argued over controllers, shared tips, and passed levels together. Today, many children play alone in their bedrooms, connected to hundreds or thousands of others online but rarely face-to-face."
Now, as an old school gamer myself, I also now the importance of responsibilities over recreation. Started working at 9 remember, and never really stopped. Add to that that many of us 80's and 90's kids were what we call "latchkey" kids today. Our parents were often at work when we got home so we had a sense of independence on the one had as we had to fend for ourselves for a good chunk of the time, and community on the other as we were in groups with our friends as often as possible.
Social media has become for many the ultimate online video game. It has riddled our children with a sense of anxiety, isolation, and social awkwardness that goes far beyond what you would call normal. It's supposed to be awkward to approach a girl or guy at a bar or in person, swiping left or right on an app is easy but socially more toxic.
Many aspects of modern day society are creating a cycle of isolation, weakness, and sensitivity, especially in younger people that is not only leaving them unprepared for the struggles they will face in the future but also one that is in fact as dangerous to them as it is for society. A popular phrase circulating the internet in recent years was this:
"Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times." author Geoff Michael Hopf
The internet loves these types of inspirational quotes but we should really consider this cycle of truth. The history of that truth will blow your mind and as someone that obsesses over history I'll close this out leaving you these last points to consider relating to that above quote from Hopf dating back to 2015.
Point 1 building off of Michael Hopf's quote goes back much farther....to a 14th century Arab historian named Ibn Khaldun (1332-1406):
"The toughness of desert life is lost. Group feeling and courage weaken. Members of the tribe revel in the well-being that God has given them. Their children and offspring grow up too proud to look after themselves or to attend to their own needs. They have disdain also for all the other things that are necessary in connection with group feeling....Their group feeling and courage decrease in the next generations. Eventually group feeling is altogether destroyed." - Ibn Khaldun
Point 2, appropriate as tomorrow is Easter Sunday, takes us back even farther to the bible, which I read in full back in December.
It repeatedly warns about the spiritual and moral dangers of prosperity leading to pride, (which is bad), self-reliance, (which is good if acknowledged in partnership with Gods blessing but bad if seen as independent apart from God), forgetfulness of God as I just mentioned, and eventual decline.
This cycle of trust in God leading to prosperity followed by arrogance leading to decline happens again and again in the bible so in the spirit of Easter I will leave you with these last passages from the bible.
Deuteronomy 8: chapters 11-18
"Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God, failing to observe his commands, his laws and his decrees that I am giving you this day. Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down, and when your herds and flocks grow large and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied, then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. He led you through the vast and dreadful wilderness...He gave you manna to eat in the wilderness...You may say to yourself, 'My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.' But remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth..."
Romans 5: chapters 3-5
"we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance character; and character, hope"
As Easter is tomorrow, perhaps Romans 5 is the best way to end this blog, reminding us of the resurrection message. Regardless of your level of faith there is undoubtedly truth in the lessons of Romans 5.
If you are not a person of faith then just look at the truth in the chain reaction of suffering leading to perseverance, perseverance to strong character, and strong character giving you hope.
The beauty of the message is that if you are a person of faith, then the same exact message applies not only in the story of Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection, a story of suffering leading to hope like no other, but in a lesson preached over and over throughout history and life....we need only to listen and learn it.
Happy Easter